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alok bahut akela akela rehta hai..kahi aata jaata bhi nahi hai, koi friend bhi nahi hai..iska jaldi shaadi kara do.

marry someone straight out of college at 22 or wait till 32…else forget it.

22

you see her on the first day of college, you keep running into her during first year and by the time you eventually you get to know her by the end of first year/ second year, you are nuts about her. pure unadulterated passion. eyes, lips, hair ..everything makes you go crazy. there is no other criteria. the way she walks, the way she smiles, her dressing sense,  you are just hooked. there is no other choice. its like its her or no one else. just the thought of touching her gives you goose bumps. its like there is something to discover beneath her skin.

32

you know yourself now. your capabilities, your limitations. you make sensible choices now. everything has a logic behind it. nothing is impulsive. you now want to settle now. you look for someone stable. someone mature. someone who would be able to share responsibility. someone who would make a good friend. a life partner. someone who could take decisions on your behalf. someone who has seen the world. someone independent.

27 next month. i should wait else it won’t work out.

~ by Alok on July 29, 2009.