a lot like love.
"We all have the potential to fall in love a thousand times in our lifetime. It’s easy. The first girl I ever loved was someone I knew in sixth grade. Her name was Missy; we talked about horses. The last girl I love will be someone I haven’t even met yet, probably. They all count. But there are certain people you love who do something else; they define how you classify what love is supposed to feel like. These are the most important people in your life, and you’ll meet maybe four or five of these people over the span of 80 years. But there’s still one more tier to all this; there is always one person you love who becomes that definition. It usually happens retrospectively, but it happens eventually. This is the person who unknowingly sets the template for what you will always love about other people, even if some of these loveable qualities are self-destructive and unreasonable. The person who defines your understanding of love is not inherently different than anyone else, and they’re often just the person you happen to meet the first time you really, really, want to love someone. But that person still wins. They win, and you lose. Because for the rest of your life, they will control how you feel about everyone else."
Chuck Klosterman
wow.
“But that person still wins. They win, and you lose. Because for the rest of your life, they will control how you feel about everyone else.”
Fully agree.
I read somewhere some beautiful lines. Reproducing here a few lines from it.
“This feeling, this confidence or this connection is for sure beyond reason. I don’t why or how this came to me, all I knew was I had something which is certainly going to be different. I hadn’t felt like this with others. Of course there were girls, but this one was different.
It doesn’t matter if I have anyone or not. Even if the day comes when I have someone else too, she cannot fade away, because it isn’t about flesh. It is about her.”
I have written only from one side. The other side was equally beautiful.
hi..!!..what if you fall in love with another person..what would you do?..even if you already committed to someone else